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About Me

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A fillial son
Caring brother
Loyal friend
Full-time slacker
Part-time gamer
Non-smoker
Constantly flu bugged
Natural brown eyes
Die-hard bargain hunter(cos very poor mah)
Toilet-trained
Anti-bengism/lianism/buayaism
Heavy sleeper with sleep debt of up to ermm.. bout 10 years
Junk food & late nite eater but still freakin thin
Needs his daily dosage of teh-tariks
All work and no supper makes ah boy a dull boy =P
Like to say 'please'. :P so that i can get my way..
Effectively billingual and chinese speaking although i swear in hokkien
If i get all so shy and bashful when i'm with you, i probably like you....
(P.S.:I'm quite nice =p)

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History

♥ September 2006
♥ October 2006
♥ November 2006
♥ December 2006
♥ January 2007
♥ February 2007
♥ March 2007
♥ April 2007
♥ June 2007


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*Zhi Wen*
*Charming Twenty Three*


If you let me stay,
I'll love all the hurt away..

Monday, October 09, 2006
Reminiscence...


Today was Ah Ma's(my granny) cremation after 3 days of wake....
Relatives, friends, neighbours all turned up in the morning to send Ah Ma off on her final journey. As I was Ah Ma's only male grandchild, I along with my two uncles were assigned to push the van which contained Ah Ma's body.

Promised part(Avena) that I would not cry... but guess I'm only human after all, couldn't hold back, believe me I tried.. to be strong,to be a man...alas...
As I send Ah Ma off to cremation, memories after memories set in, Ah Ma was the one who took care of me since I was a toddler till I was old enough for pre school.
She learnt Chinese just so that she could speak to me in Mandrin, so that I would nt grow up speakin in hokkien...

"Ah Boy" was what she would affectionately call me even till when I'm adult. I always got the biggest ang bow among all the cousins, the biggest share of food..
She also made very sure I gt disciplined too when I gt naughty, so that I would not grow up becoming a brat...

Yet, I was not by her side when she breathe her last...Nobody was... I just hoped that the doctor n nurses get their deserves, but nothing matters animore, she's gone.
Its all prt of the cycle, I understand, I'll learn to let go... but it'll take time..

I'm very grateful to Avena, Anita, Chinboon, Elyn, Meiting, Raq, Rick, Vicki Jie and all those who expressed their condolences n regards, thanx for being there for me =>

I know somewhere in heaven Ah Ma's watching over me...I hope she knows Ah Boy misses her... Rest in Peace Ah Ma I love u =*(


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